Why Do Men Play Games in Relationships?

Linda S, 62: “I spent years searching for love, always falling for the wrong men. I encountered both physical and emotional abusers. If I loved them, they didn’t love me, and vice versa. Looking back, I realize I reeked of desperation. I ignored red flags and saw qualities in men that weren’t really there. I didn’t marry until I was 34 and stayed in a bad marriage for 18 years. After my divorce, it took me until I was 62 to find the man I had been searching for all my life. He proposed to me last Christmas. I wish I had relaxed and enjoyed my 20s instead of desperately seeking love and marriage. Discovering this blog and James Bauer’s wise words was a godsend. I learned to be smarter, relaxed, and let go. And guess what? Love found me! Be patient, let go of desperation, and take the advice given here. You might find the man you’ve been looking for all your life.”

Robin B, 44: “Thank you, James! Your words resonate deeply with me. I agree 100% and always keep them in mind. Even when I let go and embrace the possibility, there’s a sensation of falling and recognizing fear. But knowing there’s nothing to fear makes it worth it. Loving unconditionally and being loved the same way, even if for a fleeting moment, is worth it. If you’ve experienced it once, you’ll never settle for less. The song ‘All of Me’ by John Legend perfectly captures this feeling. Thank you for all your emails!”

Sophie P, 39: “Your research and advice were invaluable. My boyfriend went from being distant and too busy to see me to the opposite. I was patient for a long time, but then I read about not bottling up my feelings. I texted him how I felt, in a nice way, full of compliments. He immediately asked to see me and couldn’t wait! We had a wonderful time, and I followed your guidance on the power of silence. Thank you so much!”

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